{"id":286,"date":"2026-07-26T19:13:44","date_gmt":"2026-07-26T19:13:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/?p=286"},"modified":"2026-07-26T19:13:44","modified_gmt":"2026-07-26T19:13:44","slug":"youre-probably-hallucinating-rejection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/?p=286","title":{"rendered":"You\u2019re Probably Hallucinating Rejection"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div class=\"captioned-image-container\">\n<figure>\n<div class=\"image2-inset\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/substackcdn.com\/image\/fetch\/$s_!rGau!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep\/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8fdb6f6b-114f-48b0-9e3c-8da36c7d9b89_4800x3200.heic\" width=\"548\" height=\"365.4587912087912\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/8fdb6f6b-114f-48b0-9e3c-8da36c7d9b89_4800x3200.heic&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:971,&quot;width&quot;:1456,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:548,&quot;bytes&quot;:1269412,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image\/heic&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/psychologyofrelationships.substack.com\/i\/198497950?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8fdb6f6b-114f-48b0-9e3c-8da36c7d9b89_4800x3200.heic&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}\" class=\"sizing-normal\" alt=\"\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"image-link-expand\">\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset\"><button type=\"button\" class=\"pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image\"><\/button><button type=\"button\" class=\"pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image\"><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"image-caption\">You weren&#8217;t imagining it. You were misreading it.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>You left the date convinced they weren&#8217;t interested.<\/p>\n<p>You could point to exactly why. The short answers. The distracted look. The moment the energy seemed to shift. You&#8217;ve replayed it a dozen times, building the case.<\/p>\n<div class=\"pullquote\">\n<p>Here&#8217;s what you might not have considered: The signals you read so clearly may not have bee&#8230;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>              Read more<\/p>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/psychologyofrelationships.substack.com\/p\/youre-probably-hallucinating-rejection\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You weren&#8217;t imagining it. You were misreading it. You left the date convinced they weren&#8217;t interested. You could point to exactly why. The short answers. The distracted look. The moment the energy seemed to shift. You&#8217;ve replayed it a dozen times, building the case. Here&#8217;s what you might not have considered: The signals you read [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":287,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"tmauthors":[],"class_list":["post-286","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-relationships","pmpro-has-access"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/286","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=286"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/286\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/287"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=286"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=286"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=286"},{"taxonomy":"tmauthors","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/replyguru.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftmauthors&post=286"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}